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The more distant I act, the more he’s interested! I want to be more “coupley” with him, but the more I do that the more he backs off, and the more I back off the more he comes to me.
I’ve had relationships that I have tried hard to keep in “stasis”. What I mean is that I like them right where they are I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency.
Problem is, try as I might, it doesn’t last. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”. I’m not looking for that and when that starts coming up, I scale my presence in her life back considerably I don’t want things to turn into a relationship and therefore I withdraw.