Topics: Would you date an INFP?
Deep thinkers are obsessed with things that look beautiful and make sense. They are quick to fall in love with the idea of someone, or the idea of love, but then can struggle with the reality of it – the reality that isn’t always logical or coherent or aesthetically appealing.
People who think deeply understand that simply loving someone is not enough to sustain a relationship, and therein breeds the problem. They recognize that compatibility is as essential as chemistry, but that it’s not an exact science. This leads them to frequently over-analyze personality traits, patterns and behaviors with an unnecessary amount of neuroticism.
People who think deeply get their joy from thinking deeply. They have a hard time simply feeling something to feel it, or enjoying something without understanding some kind of profound meaning behind it. If they were this way, they wouldn’t have developed their capacity to think so much in the first place. It’s not always natural for them to learn to follow their hearts.