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This morning, not unlike most, I leapt out of bed dancing to Despacito (Fonsi’s version), but today’s ritual was extra special. Today, I was going to find out if I won a Sex Bet. If I could get 60-year-old playboy, Ricardo (name changed), to cancel his date to have sex with me, due to a sudden bout of a guilty conscience, I would treat myself to a mani, pedi and facial.
Over the past three months, Ricardo’s been an on-again / off-again presence in my life, primarily because he found me a challenge, and was determined to bag the prize, so to speak. After pushing him away for what I thought was the third and final time, he returned for a fourth attempt. It was time to call his bluff, so I agreed to have him over to my place, tonight, and cross that line from friendship to relationship, sex. The only way this story was going to end, is if HE ended it. Remember, it was his hunt.
I decided to send the man who disappeared after invoking the Three Date Rule a thank you note. It’s been my experience that the best way to step over negative feelings and quickly move into the joy of living, is to display genuine gratitude. No one will ever own my happiness, that’s on me.